|This woman is beautiful.|
|This woman is beautiful, too.|
Beauty is not the number on your scale. This is a reflection of fat, muscle, water, and clothing on your body. This number might indicate your health, but it is only a factor. If a body builder stands on the scale, their BMI and weight will technically label them as overweight. The scale is unreliable. Think of it as the backstabbing best friend you had but could never figure out why you kept around. She lies to you and about you.
You are the person closest to you. You have the most influence on you. Do not tell yourself that you are dumb, or ugly, or unworthy. It isn't true. We are all beautiful to someone. To someone we mean the world. If even one person feels that way about you, doesn't that count for something? Can't YOU love yourself? There is a difference between loving yourself and being a narcissist. It really is okay to love you for you.
"Be yourself, everyone else is taken." -Oscar Wilde